Saturday, February 5, 2011

THE BIG ONE!!!

Elizabeth is one!!!

Every month I've written the blog update from Elizabeth's point of view, but I have been so nostalgic lately that this one is going to be all me.

Her actual birthday, January 24, was underwhelming. I got horribly sick the day before with stomach flu. Craig was my hero and took care of Elizabeth for most of the day while I stayed in bed. I was basically quarantined from Elizabeth, because the last thing I wanted was for her to get the same miserable bug. Craig played with her, fed her, and put her to bed; all the while I could hear my baby occasionally "calling" for me and I felt terrible. I slept restlessly that night, as I always do when I'm sick, but more so than usual because I was taking a trip back in time--because on the night of January 23 into the wee hours of January 24 was when I was in labor, arriving at the hospital around 1 AM. As I slept fitfully 1 year later, I kept glancing at the clock and remembering what I had been doing a year ago at the same time. My last wakeup was around 5:30 AM, which was probably when I was getting prepped for my c-section. I didn't quite catch 5:54, Elizabeth's birth minute.

Anyway, I spent E's birthday home sick from work while she went to daycare. It wasn't until later that I found out how my husband had dressed our daughter--on her birthday, no less!!!

After work Craig picked up his favorite--Bill Knapp's chocolate cake. I was feeling better, and we had our own tiny party for our girl. In her characteristically dainty way, she poked at the cake with her index finger from a couple different curious angles.

The real celebration was not until today, February 5, when we threw her party--just a family party with both sets of grandparents, and Uncle Matt and Aunt Wendy and E's three cousins. A beautiful snow fell gently outside, and inside was a blissful chaos of everything a child's birthday should be--pizza, cake, noisemakers, 1st birthday-themed napkins and high chair decorations and banners. I made a simple carrot cake with understated decoration, and Elizabeth ate most of her piece! As always, it was a joy to watch her with her older cousins. She just gets right into the thick of everything and wants to keep up. Her cousin Ethan is almost 2, and just a few developmental steps ahead of her, and his presence really rubbed off on her during the party. By the end of the afternoon she was sucking mightily from a sippy cup (she usually barely touches the things) and walked behind her push-toy better than I had ever seen her.

And now my precious girl sleeps off her crazy day, recharging for yet another adventure in the day of the life of a curious toddler. Things are changing...we are almost done nursing but she snuggles harder than she ever has; jars of baby food sit unopened as Elizabeth determinedly forays into the grown-up world of bite-sized avocado, banana, cheese, tangerines, chicken. The picture below shows that my daughter is becoming quite the diva in her mounting independence, as well.
Praise God for the life of our daughter.

Thursday, January 20, 2011

Saga of a crazed working mom

I usually feel like I am barely keeping it together as a full time working mom. I am perpetually, embarrassingly disorganized. Tonight was a prime example of how insane it's gotten.

I had to take a $5500 check to the bank today. I had it among a pile of papers and some other things in a bag to take to work. So this morning I backed out of my ice-rink driveway in the pitch dark of 7:00 and put some mail in the mailbox. I had to first take out the mail from last night that we'd never brought in. In doing so I absently noticed a piece of paper flit into the street. I thought it was that extra piece of paper on the Netflix envelope (I'd put a Netflix in the mailbox). I was in a hurry, Elizabeth was in the car, it was freezing, I was walking on ice in high heeled boots, and I thought it was just an empty Netflix thing so I left for work!

(you see where this is going...)

I made my trip to the bank midday and deposited a couple other checks but realized I didn't have the $5500 one. I figured I'd left it at home. Day continued as always. Much later, as I was getting Elizabeth ready for bed, I remembered the piece of paper I'd seen flit into the icy street. OH S****.

I'll spare the details of how I tried to explain the situation to Craig without him killing me. So, at about 8:30 after I'd gotten Elizabeth to bed (starving, exhausted, no dinner, a houseful of chores awaiting me), I tromped outside with a flashlight. Inching along our icy road, I must have looked like a bag lady--I was wearing my down coat and sneakers with my long skirt I'd worn to work, shuffling along the road with a flashlight. I thought I was doomed.

And then, I saw it in the snow in our yard. PRAISE GOD. I still can't believe I did that or how bad my disorganization has gotten. Will I ever be sane again???? I can't take my own utter airheadedness...not sure how many brain cells I have left!!!!

Monday, January 3, 2011

The numbers go to...11!

How can it be? This is my LAST "month" birthday!!!

I am still a total peanut at just under 16 pounds, but I can move with the best of them. Mommy calls me "Speedy Gonzales" or "Scooter McGee" as I crawl away from her at warp speed. I can also pull myself up on furniture and hold on by just one hand. I can get on my tiptoes to reach whatever entices me. No walking yet--probably because I hate wearing shoes and always pull them off!

I got lots of new toys for Christmas, but give me Kleenex, remote controls, the phone, sticky notes, spoons, or shoes anyday. The best day was when Mommy and I went in the basement so she could do some organizing, and I got to poke around at the VCR. Woohoo!

I love to be silly! I like to bang my hands on surfaces and it's hilarious when Mommy joins in. I love to crawl over to my old bouncy seat and pull the cord on the musical frog and hear the music.

I also love...ELMO! He is everywhere--on my toothbrush, many books, my diapers, a little stuffed Elmo. Mommy wants everyone to know these were all GIFTS, as she is not a fan. I like to say "Ah-mo", too! (Although I call many different things "Ah-mo", or just "mo." I love to point at things, too!)

I do NOT like to be shoved in my carseat (Mommy and Daddy are FINALLY buying me a bigger one!) or go in the big bathtub.

The big day is a-coming! Next time I report in, I will be a big girl...